Historically I have used the month of December to pause and relect on the previous year. I invite you to join along. Carve out a few moments to consider this question. I highly recommend writing your answers down. Maybe read the question at the start of the day and write your thoughts before retiring for the night. Do all or do some. If you are on instagram we can use #remember2018 or go ahead and tag me @ramonawildeman if you want to share your thoughts.
What did you let go of?
I would say it is a process. I have not fully let go of the story for my children. My story for them is not their story. I have made huge gains, but every once in a while I still struggle.
Controlling others in general. Letting people live their lives and make choices without my guidance and input especially if it is unsolicited is HARD for me.
But, my relationships are lest tempestuous when I sit back and let things unfold. It is a matter of respect.