Historically I have used the month of December to pause and relect on the previous year. I invite you to join along. Carve out a few moments to consider this question. I highly recommend writing your answers down. Maybe read the question at the start of the day and write your thoughts before retiring for the night. Do all or do some. If you are on instagram we can use #remember2018 or go ahead and tag me @ramonawildeman if you want to share your thoughts.
What relationship challenged you the most? Who was it with? Why? How did you move forward? Did you? Is it still challenging?
The people closest to me are the ones that challenge me the most. I expect that is true for many people. I long for connection with others. This does not mean I am the boss of people. I do not get to dictate how their lives go. What they should do. What they shouldn’t do. I need to meet them where they are. This is not an easy thing. But, we can do hard things. Like Glennon Doyle says.